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In today’s episode, I will discuss “Planting a Seed”.What is it?What does it mean?A genuine concern to me - Is planting a seed just incognito for manipulating your partner?Can you create anticipation and arousal in your marriage by planting a seed?Keep listening to find out why I feel that planting a seed is one of the most essential and powerful tools for a masculine Dominan

Everyone who finds themselves at this crossroads in life will have different circumstances that lead them there. And many, if not all, of these circumstances, will seem entirely reasonable for someone to ask THE question.Because of this…. Or Due to that….Should we take a break from our D/s-M relationship and pick it back up when life slows down or when life gets a little easier

We often hear people talk about being the leader in your relationship. Leadership is a core trait of the divine masculine energy. Like Dominance, if I had to choose a single word to describe the masculine energy to someone, it would be leadership.What we don't hear people talking about as frequently is what Dominant Leadership looks like and how it actually shows up in our eve

In today's episode, I will give you my perspective on today's Emasculated husband. I will begin with the origin of today's topic, an elevator ride in my hotel in Iceland. Here I witnessed an all too common interaction between a husband and wife. Was this shell of a man always this emasculated, or had it been a long journey through life that left him this way? Did his

In today’s episode, I am going to talk about PLEASURE, more specifically as the Leader, as the Dominant, whose pleasure are you striving to fulfill in the relationship?A couple of days ago, lk and I sat down and discussed several topics that came to mind. At one point, she fired off several great but difficult questions. As we began to discuss some of these questions in more deta

I was talking with lk today about the husDOM podcast. I told her that I was going to begin producing and publishing podcast episodes again. Our conversation leads into many different areas, from who the target audience is, to sharpening the tagline, to the music at the beginning of the podcast. Without a clear picture of the journey, it is difficult how to navigate.The music has be

If you have read any of my articles on husDOM.com You may have noticed a common thread. I usually archive my personal experiences, my personal struggles. I believe that it not only helps you listeners or the people reading the articles on husDOM.com. I also believe that when I write it down, it helps me look at that situation from a different perspective. And that comes from actual

Relationships are challenging. How to have a close and meaningful relationship with your partner is not something that most or probably any of us were ever taught in school, and some of us have few, if any, good role models to emulate. It has been said that how we behave in our intimate relationships today is often a reflection of our parents and how they behaved towards one anothe

In today's episode, I'm going to be talking with Marshall Bradford. Marshall is a good friend of mine, and I have known him since close to the beginning of my DS journey. Marshall lives in Las Vegas and is an integral part of the local rope bondage scene. He is both an erotic photographer and a well-versed rope bondage artist. Marshall is one of the best rope instructors

During my journey to become a better man, a better husband, a better Dominant and a better leader there hasn’t been a time when I haven’t felt like my personal health and fitness wasn’t an integral part of my journey. This to me was just like oxygen to a flame, a necessity. After Beastly told me of his departure, I began asking myself, what was so important to me about having